Kpop haters’ problem? Don’t worry. As long as we live in this world, we will always be entertained by both lovers and haters. Someone is paying attention to you or your Kpop idol for two reasons only. Number one is because they love your idol and the second one is they are looking for any small mistake to start the hate attack. Mostly the haters did the hate attack for fun. They will be more joyful if one of their attacks is getting into your attention. You know what, this is how to handle the haters if you are the Kpop Idol or the fandom.
Who Are The Haters?
Obviously they’re none other than a human being who chooses to hate other people. The haters are people who hate you or someone else for no reason or specific reason. Please wake up because in our world right now haters and lovers have existed side by side. This world will never be empty of lovers as well as haters. So, it is important for you to know how to handle the haters. In our Kpop world, the haters are the competitors and the antiKpop type of people.
10 Reasons Haters Are Not Worth Of Your Time
1. This is their way to convey how jealous they are of your success. They can’t stand how you get lots of love from the fandom and people around you.
2. They want to express negativity towards you because they want to have the accomplishment that you and your Idol are having.
3. They are so unhappy to see how popular you’ve become.
4. They never give up spreading hate and negativity until they get a feedback from you.
5. Like a bully, haters love to see you cry or angry.
6. They want your attention just like you give attention to your Kpop Idol or Fandom.
7. By giving a bad image to you and your fandom, their favorite Kpop Idols and Fandom can be on top.
8. They want to ruin your day and literally happy when it happens.
9. Even their fandom is bigger but they still don't like other fandoms who is smaller but showing too much love with each other #jealous. Some idol treats their fans better. So the competitor fandom felt jealous coz their idol doesn't do the same.
10. Senior fandom always has a problem with junior fandom because of their behavior always out of control. It is normal for senior fandom to have fewer fans after 7 years. But if the junior fandom finds out there is a senior fandom which still survives after 10 years, they feel threated. Spreading false rumors is one of their tactics to get rid of their threats so there is no Idol more popular than theirs.
It’s not worth it to pay attention to the haters. If you think about the little haters, you are making it a big deal in your life. That is just what they want. So stop giving them what they want and handle the haters like this instead. The media wouldn't stop this fandom war because it will give them the opportunity to get more idea for click-baiting the readers.
Guide For Idol:
1. See them as the worthless human being. Haters are not valuable because whatever they’re saying to you, it’s just not a positive feedback neither constructive advice/criticism that you need.
2. Choose to be with your lover, not the hater. Ignore the haters once and for all because their target is nothing but to make your day a disaster. So just pay attention to your fandom who loves you and brightens your day.
3. Avoid talking about the haters especially in your social media because your followers are not only the fans but also a bunch of haters.
4. Do not read gossips from the haters and then give your feedback on the spot. Please be wiser of your action because talking about it just dragging the story longer and make the haters happier.
5. Tell your manager about it if it’s involving threats. Legal action will be needed if they are threatening your safety, harming your family, trespassing your property, and financially harmful.
6. Focus on your work and meet your fans often. Maintain the continuous relationship and sweet dynamic between you and the fans.
7. You are becoming a singer or Kpop Idol for a reason. Believe in yourself and don’t let anyone especially the haters ruining your confidence.
8. Haters could be your motivators to work harder but do not make any contact with them even in the social media. Learn to discern whose comment is matter and not for your career.
9. Feel sorry for the haters because they are choosing the wrong path of life and pray for them to found happiness in the right way again. Killing them with kindness is the best and no verbal connection required.
10. Accept the fact that Kpop Idol or not, haters will always come and go in our life so do not take it as a big deal. Your image won’t be tarnished even a little bit if you ignore the unnecessary haters in your entire career. Remember, the higher you are in Kpop popularity, your chance to be the haters' target is bigger too.
11. Feel pity for the haters because they have no blessing to feel the beauty of love, friendship, and family. It's their decision to be the haters even they know it is wrong. So, please pity for them because they are choosing the wrong path in life.
1. Do not give any direct feedback to the haters. Instead, you should show your support to your Idol only and deny the haters hate by posting positive/encouraging comments in social media. Fanwar is so not needed to show how supportive you’re to your idol. It’s just giving Kpop a bad image to the competitive music world.
2. Contacting your Idol’s company publicly to take immediate action of the haters is not a wise decision. The haters are celebrating their victory while you are on it. The best way to silence them is to ignore the haters once and for all to tell them that their comments are worthless.
3. Once you see a hater spreading abusive comments in social media, report their account immediately. Their account will be closed down ASAP because of your complaint isn’t groundless.
4. Do not fight fire with fire. Do not retweet, reshare, or giving any feedback to the hater’s posts in social media. Ignore and report.
5. If a hater is targeting you and reaches you in social media, as long as no physical threat is involved, the hater is harmless. Once again, ignore and report.
6. If a hater hates you for being so lucky because you’ve met your Idol, your CD arrives, or you’ve been at your dream concert, please look at how you share such information again. Your over-jubilant post might provoke them to hate you because they’re not as lucky as you are. So be careful and stay humble with all that blessing.
7. If a hater posting a rumor about your Idol is dating to ruin your day, just ignore it. Even if the rumor is true, so why not? Your Idol is a human being too and sooner or later they will meet their soul mate. Please keep this in mind, a Kpop Idol can live without a girlfriend or wife, but he can’t live without his fans. Now, who is more important here? So be happy guys.
8. The best way to silence the haters is by doing more of what they already hate of your idol. If they hate of how supportive you are to your idol, support your idol more. If they hate because your idol is the best singer of all, brag more about your idol. But make sure that you’re not directly mentioning the name of the hater. This way will make the hater see that no matter how much they hate, it will not make any changes to you and your idol.
9. If there is a hater that really crossing the line by giving a hateful comment such as “I hope that you get cancer and die.” do not reply to this particular person on the spot. Instead, make a pact with your fandom to pray for this type of hater and wish him to live longer so he can expiate his wrongdoings. This hater is so deviated and needs help.
10. In the end, the hater does not hate anything about you and your idol at all. They are so disappointed in themselves because they are ordinary, unloved, unsuccessful, and lack of attention. They’re seeking pleasure by hurting happy people like us even they know it is not a right thing to do. Only special people with skills can approach this kind of hater and make them be a part of the fandom. Spread love not hate is always better right?
11. Stay classy. If you are a successful fan who have jobs and a steady life, do not waste your time to reply an anti-fan comment who is obviously a 12-year-old kid with no money and can't eat without their parents serve the food for them. If you find out the antis are a bunch of teenagers, please feel pity for them because they are living with a bad attitude that they will ashamed of when they grow up. They still can't buy an album or go to their idols concert without begging money from their parents. So please feel pity for them.
Teenage Antis
Teenage life is all about to find their own identity and their competitive level is high. It is easy for them to get jealous if their friends have something more than them. Maybe their friends have great parents who can support her Kpop needs while they don't. At that point, to overcome her jealousy, they become an anti so they can turn their friend's happiness to be miserable as theirs.
Rude Antis
Rude antis are the worst. What type of people who wish someone else's death? Have you ever say to anyone such as,"I wish you to die," before? Are you out of your mind enough to say that? To the haters especially between age 10-16 who did say like that upon other fandom's idol;
1. What makes you think that you have rights to wish someone to die?
2. If someone you don't recognize suddenly wishes your mother or family to die, how would you feel?
3. If you're still a teenager and then a bully wants you to die because she/he hates you for no reason, don't you think the bully is insane?
4. If you're still a kid or a teenager and then a bully wants your mother to die, would you like to hear that every day?
5. If you are not a Korean, how a Kpop artist from South Korea related to you? How could you wish them to die if you never met them and the most important, they don't even know your name to call you and hurt your feelings in person?
Do not play with that forbidden word. If you don't know how it feels when you're losing a mother, father, brother, baby sister, or friends because they're dead, do not ever use that word towards other people. If you're a grown-up but you use that word a lot to other people, you need to get help. You are not mentally healthy. You can't see how beautiful the life is if your mind is unhealthy like that. Do it before it's too late because words cut deeper than the knife.
Good News From SMTown
SMTown is the first record label company in South Korea that established law enforcement to the antis. Therefore, if the fans see any false rumors, harsh comments, defamation comments from the antis or the competitors on the social media, please do this steps.
1. Screenshots everything from the id name, the pertaining comments, time, date.
2. Submit the evidence to protect@smtown email
So Shawols, and other SM Artists fandom, as a classy Kpop fandom in the world which against rudeness and bad behavior, please report the antis account instead of wasting our time replying to their rude comments on the social media. We are wiser than that and the antis don't worth our time.
SHINee World Is A Lovely Fandom
SHINee World loves SHINee as a family. If you see anyone in the name of Shawol but he/she said 'I hate one member of SHINee', their SHINee World status is so questionable. SHINee World or Shawol also never use harsh word towards each other moreover to other fandoms. We are living in our own world, supporting our SHINee and their friends as much as we can every day.
Any friends of SHINee are friends of Shawols too who deserved to get our help and support when needed. Some of Shawols also loves to hear other bands songs too and be happy for their achievements in any awards or song charts. It's so weird when such an innocent fandom like this got antis. The reason is obvious right? To bring us down so the other Idol can rise up.
I've been in this fandom for so long but all of sudden I saw a lot of fake Shawols, Kpop antis, even entertainment websites which starting with lots of lovely post of SHINee to make their websites popular now turning against the group. We know we are your forever threat and the entertainment websites are desperate for clicks but please do not make your country or the Korean Music Industry looks bad because of you. Even you are only responsible for your entertainment websites, you should protect your precious economy assets with your country or the world will look at you as a joke.
To our Junior Fandom such as EXO-L, Twice, Carats, Army, Igot7 and others, please take our story as a lesson. Maybe one day your fandom will be experienced the same thing especially when the band is already 6-7 years old. Please protect your fandom starting now. We as Shawols will always be there for you if you need help. To SHINee and Shawol, the moment has come. SHINee will be back soon. Please enjoy the moment without any worries because of antis. We have our law procedure (thanks to SMTown) waiting for them if they want to be starting something again. Our SHINee is the most innocent and well-behavior idol ever. Plus, everyone knows that SHINee is the greatest Kpop boyband in South Korea and Japan. Cheer up SHINee and Shawol. You deserved all the happiness in the world. We love you so much.
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